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Diagnosed at 41.

Ryan Perez is a cognitive architect and innovation strategist in Calgary. He founded Bow Tie Kreative in 2013 after twenty years in software. Autistic, ADHD and dyslexic — none of which he knew until 41. He had been building workarounds since he was about four, which he now describes as four decades of unlabelled field research.

  • Keynote Speaker
  • Author
  • Neurodivergent Advocate
  • Podcast Host
  • Rapper-Poet
  • Single Father
  • Creative Strategist
Ryan Perez
The story

Seven times, trauma became a project.

Not because Ryan is extraordinary. Because when systems fail you repeatedly, you either build a door or you don't get through.

  1. 1983

    Born in Calgary

    Born April 8, 1983. A childhood shaped by divorce, absence and the quiet work of figuring out where he fit.

    Born in Calgary, 1983
  2. 2001

    Found by mentors

    Mentors recognized untapped potential — introducing Black history, martial arts, music and business, and celebrating difference instead of pathologizing it.

  3. 2006

    Sharing stages & breaking stories

    Shared the stage with Motown legends Martha Reeves and Funk Brother Joe Hunter. Collaborated on a hidden-camera investigation into racial profiling in Calgary nightclubs — his first viral moment.

  4. 2009

    Becoming a father

    Son Malcolm born. Ryan steps into stay-at-home fatherhood while building a creative life around it.

    Becoming a father, 2009
  5. 2013

    Building the agency

    Launched a creative digital agency — design, marketing and video — collaborating with top Canadian talent including Jully Black.

  6. 2016

    The Hustle Zone

    Produced the Hustle Zone podcast (13,000+ downloads), later Pathway to the Heart. Donated free websites to people with disabilities through the OneLove project.

  7. 2023

    Burnout & homelessness

    Severe burnout from untreated ADHD and autism cost Ryan his job and housing. From that place, he delivered a keynote at a Mental Health Summit — while unhoused.

  8. 2024

    A name for it

    November 2024: an official autism diagnosis. "My diagnosis didn't change who I was — it finally gave me the language to describe who I'd always been." By December, he transitioned out of homelessness.

  9. 2025

    Author. Founder. Free.

    Published three books simultaneously and launched SoulsMatter — a platform for marginalized, late-diagnosed adults. Every soul matters, but some have been told they don't.

    Author. Founder. Free., 2025
The Second Brain

240,720 nodes, because remembering things the normal way was never on the table.

An AI-powered knowledge system holding 240,720 mapped experiences and 17,336 connections. It exists because a gestalt brain needed its own operating system and there wasn't one to buy. It is also the clearest example of the thing he teaches: the workaround was the product.

240,720
Mapped experiences
17,336
Connections
Written

Two books and a novel.

He fights systems, not people.
A room laughing under stage light
Also true

He does stand-up.

Which is relevant, because a room that's laughing is a room that's still listening when the hard part arrives. Two books, one novel, three podcasts, and a bow tie that has been asked about more than any of the above.

Booking

Put him in a room where something is breaking.

Keynotes, advisory, and audits. Calgary. Travels anywhere.