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Unfiltered Truth or Dare: Hilarious Confessions & Dares Among Friends

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Sometimes the kindest thing you can do in a relationship is lie — as one guest put it, he routinely tells his partner he likes her mother, or her dress, purely to "keep the peace."

Wild Wild Wednesday: Truth or Dare Comes to Hustle Zone Jam Session

Every so often a talk show format needs a night off from talking about anything in particular, and that’s exactly what happened on this episode of Hustle Zone Jam Session, billed by co-hosts Brand Savant (Ryan) and Monica Black Diamond as “Wild Wild Wednesday.” The topic wasn’t a topic at all — it was Truth or Dare, cycled through a rotating cast of guests with a promise, repeated more than once, that “you don’t ever have to do a dare, you just have to do truth.”

Before the game got going, the show’s data helper Anna shared a bit of behind-the-scenes news: the Hustle Zone channel had picked up 46,000 views across eight videos in the previous 30 days, a spike she chalked up to growing Instagram visibility funneling people over to YouTube — and, as she noted, simply more people being home during the coronavirus period. Anna, who described her own niche as “comment curator” work — moderating chat and easing into an associate-producer role once a show is live, a skill she’s built over five years working with live streamers including Owen Hamm’s masterclass — settled into the guest chair alongside screenwriter and Indy Radio.org host Kente Ferguson and later arrivals Roberta and returning regular Q.

The Truths ranged from breezy to surprisingly candid. Kente’s biggest relationship fear turned out to be losing interest too early — “maybe it’s more me a me thing,” he admitted. Anna’s biggest turnoff was a first kiss gone wrong: a college-era date who “thrust his tongue like right in my mouth.” Roberta confessed to sleeping with a light on because unexplained sounds make her feel like “there’s like an entity in my room.” Asked about weird habits, the group discovered they had more in common than they thought: Monica organizes her closet and makeup by color, Ryan throws away the first and last item in any stack — cups, plates, even the first slice of bread — and Kente counts his steps and gets uneasy landing on an odd number.

One of the night’s more memorable confessions came from Kente on the subject of writer’s block: when he’s stuck on a screenplay, his go-to fix isn’t the shower everyone else swears by — it’s sitting on the toilet, no bathroom business required, notepad in hand. “I think the toilet is where I shine,” he said. Elsewhere, Ryan let slip (via his son Malcolm, who was recruited to answer for him) that pacing and jogging up and down the hallway is his tell for a great idea or a great beat.

Romantic honesty got its own airing too. Anna admitted she’d once thought about cheating early in her engagement — she didn’t act on it, but said an ex who “respected that I was engaged” shut the idea down for her. Kente owned up to routine white lies told to keep the peace — liking a dress he didn’t like, claiming to like a partner’s mother he didn’t — while insisting he doesn’t tell “big lies.” And Monica described the less charming side of hosting live streams: men sliding into her broadcasts with inappropriate comments and images, sometimes forcing her to block someone mid-show.

The Dares supplied the chaos the Truths held back. Roberta ate a spoon of black pepper on request, then later delivered a Michael Jackson impression, a one-legged belly-rub-head-pat balancing act, and a shout from her balcony that she is “enough” and “amazing.” Anna sang a raunchy remix of “You Are My Sunshine.” Ryan drew two of the toughest assignments: repeating “I’m a pony” for a full two minutes on a timer, and later performing “I’m a Little Teapot,” dance included, while Kente — sitting on an IOU for ten Jumping Jacks he never quite paid off — pleaded he might “fall” or “throw up” if pushed to do it before signing off.

A lightning round closed things out with quick hits: 2% milk in cereal, Rihanna over Beyoncé, Albany as the capital of New York, mixed feelings on Africa travel and gas-station taquitos, and a unanimous, emphatic “burn it down” or “kill it” when it came to spiders and mice.

Before wrapping, the hosts previewed the next night’s episode as a tonal hard left turn — a serious conversation on childhood trauma, bullying, and things people have witnessed, framed as part of a mission to “brand ourselves as the topics that no one else will talk about.” For one Wednesday, though, the mission was simpler: laugh, confess a little, and eat some pepper on a dare.

Lessons from this one

  1. Small, prosocial white lies are a common and openly acknowledged tool for keeping peace in relationships.

    Kente admitted he routinely tells his partner white lies — like claiming to like her mother or a dress he doesn't — specifically to avoid unnecessary conflict, distinguishing these from 'big lies' he says he never tells.

    DePaulo, B. M., & Kashy, D. A. (1998). Everyday lies in close and casual relationships. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 74(1), 63-79. This diary study found that people tell more lies to those they feel closest to when the lies are altruistic/other-oriented, and that such prosocial lies in close relationships are not associated with reduced relationship satisfaction the way self-serving lies are — directly supporting the idea that small, benevolent deception is a common, low-cost peacekeeping tool in relationships.

  2. People often don't recognize their own repetitive private rituals as unusual until asked directly.

    When asked about their 'weirdest habit,' several guests initially said they didn't have one, then went on to describe specific compulsive-feeling routines — organizing by color, discarding the first and last item in a stack, or counting steps and needing them to land on an even number.

    Muris, P., Merckelbach, H., & Clavan, M. (1997). Abnormal and normal compulsions. Behaviour Research and Therapy, 35(3), 249-252. This study found checking, counting, ordering/arranging and similar ritualistic behaviors are common in non-clinical (normal) populations, occurring with lower frequency/intensity than in OCD patients but with largely overlapping content — supporting the idea that mild, ritual-like private routines are widespread and not inherently pathological, even when people don't initially label them as habits.

  3. A specific physical environment or posture can become a reliable trigger for creative breakthroughs.

    Screenwriter Kente described sitting on the toilet, without needing to use it, as his consistent method for getting unstuck on a script, calling it the place where he 'shines' creatively.

    Baird, B., Smallwood, J., Mrazek, M. D., Kam, J. W. Y., Franklin, M. S., & Schooler, J. W. (2012). Inspired by Distraction: Mind Wandering Facilitates Creative Incubation. Psychological Science, 23(10), 1117-1122. This experiment found that engaging in an undemanding task that promotes mind-wandering during an incubation period substantially improved performance on subsequent creative problem-solving tasks — supporting the general 'shower thoughts' mechanism (a low-demand, familiar routine/setting freeing attention for incubation) behind a specific physical ritual becoming a reliable creativity trigger, though the study does not address toilet-sitting specifically.

  4. Women hosting live video content report persistent unsolicited sexual harassment from viewers.

    Monica described men sending explicit images, calling or video-chatting her uninvited, and making inappropriate comments during her live streams, sometimes requiring her to block someone in the moment.

    Vogels, E. A. (2021). The State of Online Harassment. Pew Research Center. This nationally representative survey found women are far more likely than men to report having been sexually harassed online (16% vs. 5% overall; 33% vs. 11% among adults under 35), and that harassed women are much more likely than harassed men to find the experience extremely or very upsetting (34% vs. 14%). This is strong authoritative evidence for the general pattern of gendered sexual harassment online, though it covers internet users broadly rather than livestreamers specifically — no study was found isolating the live-video-hosting context Monica describes.

  5. Cross-platform momentum — growing on one channel while people are more available to watch — can compound into fast audience growth.

    Anna reported the show gained 46,000 views across eight videos in 30 days, attributing the spike to rising Instagram visibility driving traffic to YouTube alongside more people being home during the coronavirus period.

    No controlled study was found specifically measuring cross-platform audience funneling (e.g., Instagram growth driving YouTube views) or quantifying it against a COVID-19 stay-at-home effect — this half of the claim reflects the guest's own account of her show's growth, presented as such rather than as research-backed fact. The COVID-19 side of the claim is independently supported by Cellini, N., Canale, N., Mioni, G., & Costa, S. (2020), Changes in sleep pattern, sense of time and digital media use during COVID-19 lockdown in Italy, Journal of Sleep Research, 29(4), e13074, which documented a measurable increase in digital media use during pandemic lockdown, consistent with 'more people being home' driving more video consumption, though it does not address cross-platform funneling.

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2h 06m
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Hustle Zone Jam Session
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Ryan Perez

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